Embracing Community Over Competition in the Beauty Industry
In the world of beauty, where creativity and artistry converge, there lies an often-overlooked undercurrent of competition and gossip that can taint the otherwise empowering experience. As someone deeply embedded in this industry, both as a makeup artist and in my role as a Connections Director for Le Rêve, I've seen firsthand the pitfalls of the "middle school gossip trap" that sometimes surrounds our profession. It’s a race that none of us agreed to run, yet many find themselves caught up in.
The beauty industry is a vibrant, dynamic space filled with talented professionals who transform and uplift others daily. However, like many female-dominated industries, it can sometimes be clouded by a sense of competition and comparison. This isn't just about skill or creativity—it's about being seen, being relevant, and often, being the best. This pressure can lead to an unhealthy environment where gossip and cliques overshadow the incredible work being done.
I am far from perfect and have made my share of mistakes. I've found myself participating in or affected by the very gossip that can be so damaging. However, I recognize the importance of taking responsibility for the impact my actions have on others. It’s crucial to acknowledge that while I may not always be the victim, I am also not a villain in anyone's narrative. This realization has been pivotal in my journey toward fostering a more supportive and compassionate community within the industry.
The so-called "race" we find ourselves in is often a byproduct of societal expectations and internalized pressures. In a field that thrives on creativity and expression, it's ironic that so many feel constrained by the need to conform or outdo each other. This competition can lead to isolation and a lack of genuine connection—both of which are antithetical to the spirit of the beauty industry, which at its best, is about collaboration and empowerment.
Building a supportive community within female-dominated spaces like the beauty industry is not just beneficial—it's essential. A strong community fosters a sense of belonging and shared purpose. It allows us to celebrate each other's successes and learn from our failures. When we support one another, we create a ripple effect that can challenge and eventually change the competitive, often toxic culture that can pervade our industry.
Creating a nurturing and positive environment begins with self-awareness and extends to how we treat others. It's about lifting each other up rather than tearing each other down. By embracing compassion and understanding, we can create a space where everyone feels valued and respected, regardless of their role or level of experience.
The beauty industry, like any other, is a reflection of the people within it. We have the power to redefine our narrative, to shift from competition to community, and from gossip to genuine support. It starts with acknowledging our actions, understanding their impact, and choosing to move forward with empathy and integrity. Let's not run a race we never signed up for; instead, let's walk together, supporting each other along the way.
This idea of fostering community and compassion was deeply reinforced for me during a recent sermon at Life Vineyard Church. Our student director, Aaron Ellington, gave an inspiring message influenced by Bob Marley's "One Love." During his sermon, Aaron struck many chords with me, but one that stood out and aligned with this blog post was this: "Prepare a seat at your table for the person who hates you the most." That hit me like a ton of bricks. It challenged me to reconsider how I approach relationships within the industry and reinforced the importance of extending grace and understanding, even to those who may not reciprocate it.
By embodying this principle, we can start to dismantle the competitive, gossipy environment and replace it with one of genuine support and unity. Let's take this to heart and work together to create a beauty industry that truly reflects the creativity, talent, and compassion of its people.
